"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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tailor to the girl

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I was thinking, and i realized that while being a good DJ usualy gets you the girl, tailoring how you act around them can definatly help. for instance, the girl im going for is sometimes happy and up-beat, and other times realy chilled out and cool. so, judging by her apperence, i tailor my attitude and then approach. this could work pretty well for those (like me) who can read people pretty well. what do you guys think?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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mirroring

theres actually stuff including mirroring their poses, way of talking, etc. in order to establish rapport and make her comfortable around you

people tend to do this subconsciously (this is sometimes a clue a girl likes you)
 
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yea, this is a common tool for DJ's but you are on the right track. Take notice of your surroundings and come up with inferences to help you understand the way things work
 
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