I was thinking, and i realized that while being a good DJ usualy gets you the girl, tailoring how you act around them can definatly help. for instance, the girl im going for is sometimes happy and up-beat, and other times realy chilled out and cool. so, judging by her apperence, i tailor my attitude and then approach. this could work pretty well for those (like me) who can read people pretty well. what do you guys think?
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
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