"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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tailor to the girl

chill

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I was thinking, and i realized that while being a good DJ usualy gets you the girl, tailoring how you act around them can definatly help. for instance, the girl im going for is sometimes happy and up-beat, and other times realy chilled out and cool. so, judging by her apperence, i tailor my attitude and then approach. this could work pretty well for those (like me) who can read people pretty well. what do you guys think?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Mr. Debonaire

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mirroring

theres actually stuff including mirroring their poses, way of talking, etc. in order to establish rapport and make her comfortable around you

people tend to do this subconsciously (this is sometimes a clue a girl likes you)
 

Microphone Fiend

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yea, this is a common tool for DJ's but you are on the right track. Take notice of your surroundings and come up with inferences to help you understand the way things work
 
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