ShortyBrown
Master Don Juan
Yeah it's alright for you you weren't getting hands up your shirt!Originally posted by DonJohn83
As if u didnt love the attention. Who wouldnt?
Dont knock maroubra. It rocks.
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
Yeah it's alright for you you weren't getting hands up your shirt!Originally posted by DonJohn83
As if u didnt love the attention. Who wouldnt?
Dont knock maroubra. It rocks.
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
OH WHO WHO WHO?!?!Originally posted by TTAG
and I think Shorty might have a crush on someone. What do ya reckon wolfie? they make a good couple dont they?
hehe...just kidding guys and girl.
ahbahahahaha....Originally posted by DonJohn83
OH WHO WHO WHO?!?!
TELL ME, TELL ME, TELL ME!!!![]()
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
by TTAG
...brotherly-sisterly love. or is it?
$20 and the free pass is all yoursOriginally posted by wolfie
So.. what will I have to do to get that free pass Donny?![]()
OK so what will I have to do to get that free pass for freeOriginally posted by DonJohn83
$20 and the free pass is all yours![]()
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Just jokin mate, you can have itOriginally posted by wolfie
OK so what will I have to do to get that free pass for free![]()
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Hey sis, where u been?Originally posted by ShortyBrown
I see you've all been using this thread constructively whilst I was away![]()
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Rose Knight-just rock up at Home Bar at Half eight
Ahhhhh ****y+Funny... where would i be without it? (Not being called stuck up for starters
John-You are so up yourself.
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You know I love ya like an eight year old loves recess.
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.