"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Originally posted by DonJohn83
As if u didnt love the attention. Who wouldnt?

Dont knock maroubra. It rocks.
Yeah it's alright for you you weren't getting hands up your shirt! :p It is a nice joint though.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Baby turn around and let me see that sexy body go BUMP BUMP BUMP...

We're still on for the 29th people.
 

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sweet!

Sounds all good with me. So whats that? 5 of us coming? sounds good.

I just got one exam to go. But yeah im still on.

and I think Shorty might have a crush on someone. What do ya reckon wolfie? they make a good couple dont they?

hehe...just kidding guys and girl.
 

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Re: sweet!

Originally posted by TTAG
and I think Shorty might have a crush on someone. What do ya reckon wolfie? they make a good couple dont they?

hehe...just kidding guys and girl.
OH WHO WHO WHO?!?!
TELL ME, TELL ME, TELL ME!!! :D
 

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Re: Re: sweet!

Originally posted by DonJohn83
OH WHO WHO WHO?!?!
TELL ME, TELL ME, TELL ME!!! :D
ahbahahahaha....

you are a DJ! the ultimate playa, very smooth and modest. why do you still come here?

im sure you could have any girl you chose. including shorty, but i know the love between you two is brotherly-sisterly love. or is it?
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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aside from the incest talk... I've scored a couple of free passes to Cave valid for the next few wks from my Gym, i'll see if i can scab some more :) Dollashort works at NV too, I'll see if he can get us in for free.
 

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[sarcasm] Goodluck getting into cave. [/sarcasm]

CAVE
PROS
+ Wolfie might get us free tickets (tightarse :D)
+ Let me get back to you with more pro's

CONS
- An absolute B1TCH to get in
- We'd have to break up into small groups (1-2) and enter at different times, perhaps even partner off with chicks we dont know if they agree (could be a good DJing tactic too).
- Club is over rated, pretty mediocre
- SHYT crowd (full of try hards). Be prepared for a fight if u mack the wrong chick.

Anyway lets not scrap that option just yet. :)

NV (i've never been - just going off what mates tell me)
PROS
+ Younger crowd apparently
+ Easier girls apparently
+ Possibly free entry (tightarse :D)

CONS
- Requires travelling from our original meeting point


LUNA
PROS
+ Good crowd (similar to maroubra seals)
+ HOT CHICKS GUARANTEED
+ In daring harbour, therefor no travelling
+ Grand re-opening night on 29th, should go off
+ I've got one free VIP entry pass - no waiting in queue (wolfie can have it if he wants, tightarse :D)
(what can i say, im biased - GO LUNA!!)

CONS
- We MAY have to breakup into small groups to gain entry

Well there are 3 options already. Any more ideas?

by TTAG
...brotherly-sisterly love. or is it?

It is.

Awwwww group hug, group hug. :p

GOD DAMN i got an exam in a few hours so i'll see you guys L8A!!!!

P.S. TTAG, hows the master plan coming along brutha?
 

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I've only been to NV once, it's OK, smallish club with 1 dance floor and a couple of lounges. Dunno about the crowd there, I went on a specially booked out night where the only crowd were thais. Luna sounds good :) espec if it's grand opening. So.. what will I have to do to get that free pass Donny? :D
 

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Originally posted by wolfie
So.. what will I have to do to get that free pass Donny? :D
$20 and the free pass is all yours :D
 

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Originally posted by DonJohn83
$20 and the free pass is all yours :D
OK so what will I have to do to get that free pass for free :D
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Originally posted by wolfie
OK so what will I have to do to get that free pass for free :D
Just jokin mate, you can have it :)

So now thats more reason to go to LUNA people!!!!!
 

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uh oh

hey boys and girl,

some abrupt news for you. i most likely cant make it this Sat 29/11.

Something has come up and I cant/dont want to back out.

I might bump into you in the later part of the night. Not sure yet.

have a great one without me, and cant wait to read the FR.
 
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Hey guys,

My friend and I who both live in Sydney are interested in coming out this Saturday. Who do I need to contact? Is the meeting point still Home bar? What time?

cheers

RK
 

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I see you've all been using this thread constructively whilst I was away ;) :eek:
Rose Knight-just rock up at Home Bar at Half eight :)

John-You are so up yourself.
:p ;)






You know I love ya like an eight year old loves recess.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Originally posted by ShortyBrown
I see you've all been using this thread constructively whilst I was away ;) :eek:
Rose Knight-just rock up at Home Bar at Half eight :)
Hey sis, where u been?

You know the feeling back in school when the teacher would leave the classroom unattended, and we'd all fart around, get upto shyt, and turn the classroom into a mess with no time to clean it up, then she'd inevitably walk back in???

Well yeah thats how it feels now. :( :p

John-You are so up yourself.
:p ;)
You know I love ya like an eight year old loves recess.
Ahhhhh ****y+Funny... where would i be without it? (Not being called stuck up for starters :p)

By the way, i dunno what kinda sick twisted school you went to, but where im from, the eight yearolds never had wierd sexual feelings towards recess. So back da fukk up sista! Sorry... C+F again...
Just slap me when that happens... :D

Have you picked out which waterproof outfit ur gonna wear??
 

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Ok, im not sure whats happening this weekend, my car's got to go in 4 some servicing some time soon and if they take it over the weekend then i might have to make other plans of getting up there.

Firstly where is LUNA, what's it near, what street etc.. ? Is it a pub or club ?

Secondly, if i arrive later than expected i may have to give one of you a call to see where u guys are at. Who's volunteering ? :)
 

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LUNA is in Darling Harbour.

You know that massive walkbridge that goes over the top from one side of the harbour to the other?

Well on one side of it, theres Pontoon and stuff (the side closest to george st), and on the OTHER side of the bridge, is right next to luna (starcity casino etc.) Get me?

So no matter where you park or get dropped off at the harbour, its only a short walk (no more than 5mins).

Its called the 'Docks Hotel'. Its a club with a mixture of R&B and Dance, huge bar inside, decent dance floor, and an outside balcony kinda area with chairs and tables, perfect for chillin.

I'll PM you my number incase you're late or whatever.

DJ83
 

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Thanks man, appreciated.

Hope to see ya's there :D
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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