"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Sydney has been ranked as the third-worst city in the world for making new friends

Zimbabwe

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Combination of three things I reckon:

  1. We're just a very insular, clique-y kind of people
  2. The corporate 'rat race' culture here - everybody works too much to bother exploring social circles
  3. For a global city, we have **** all to do
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Hi Zimbabwe,
It's laughing that keeps you going isn't it?...Sydney is much like other Cities its size once your ability to walk across it in an hour goes so does its soul...You are a relative newcomer and so don't have a feeling of belonging nor a circle of Old acquaintances...Covid doesn't make socialising any easier either,most Folk are just hunkering down and just trying to survive...Cheer up though it would only take one fortunate meeting and your outlook might well change.
 

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You forgot 4) Geography. Sydney has idyllic geography, meaning people can relax and unwind simply by being outside or going to the country/beach instead of needing friends to chill out with.
 
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