"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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I hear it is the ultimate full body workout. I don't doubt it either, I was on the swim team in grade school. Never in my whole life, was I cut up like that. Also, women with a swimmers body are breathtaking.

I would like to switch over from walking to go back to swimming. Anyone have any advice on what pools to go to ie: gym pools vs school pools vs etc.? I really miss the water!
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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I would not recommend swimming in the state of sleep deprivation.
 

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I would not recommend swimming in the state of sleep deprivation.
thanks Chris!!!

I'm thinking of signing up with planet fitness ($10mo). I'm not sure which cardio machine would be close to the effect of swimming. Any thoughts?
 

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Why do you want a cardio machine to simulate swimming? Why not swim instead?
 

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"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Why not? If your not going to fall asleep whats going to happen?
I imagine he's thinking of me nodding off underwater. It happens, I'll be sitting somewhere, then wake up from sleeping.
 
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