"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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I hear it is the ultimate full body workout. I don't doubt it either, I was on the swim team in grade school. Never in my whole life, was I cut up like that. Also, women with a swimmers body are breathtaking.

I would like to switch over from walking to go back to swimming. Anyone have any advice on what pools to go to ie: gym pools vs school pools vs etc.? I really miss the water!
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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I would not recommend swimming in the state of sleep deprivation.
 

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I would not recommend swimming in the state of sleep deprivation.
thanks Chris!!!

I'm thinking of signing up with planet fitness ($10mo). I'm not sure which cardio machine would be close to the effect of swimming. Any thoughts?
 

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Why do you want a cardio machine to simulate swimming? Why not swim instead?
 

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"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Why not? If your not going to fall asleep whats going to happen?
I imagine he's thinking of me nodding off underwater. It happens, I'll be sitting somewhere, then wake up from sleeping.
 
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