"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Sweaty Situation

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I'm not a shy dude, I slowly grew out of that. But I do have a problem, I guess I get nervous and my hands sweat. I don't have panic attacks about it, I just get self-conscious. In a way the sweaty palms hold me back, because I remember when I was younger and girls would say "eww why are you're hands wet?" I can laugh at it now but when I'm out on dates I think about it and try to keep from contact as not to freak her out. Any advice on this little subject?

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"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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maybe you have hyperhydrosis
 

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I suppose the less nervous you get the less you sweat. I used to sweat a lot when first meeting people. But now I have a job where I'm always shaking hands and touching people. Doesn't happen anymore.

So I think the solution is to just quite frankly... start touching more people in your day-to-day life.
 

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I'm know it is me being nervous, I'll see if your advice works flexion.

What the hell is hyperhydrosis? Going by the context of the thread and the word's root I'm guessing it has to do with sweating a lot. Is that really a condition?
 
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