"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Sweaty Situation

MindFlip

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I'm not a shy dude, I slowly grew out of that. But I do have a problem, I guess I get nervous and my hands sweat. I don't have panic attacks about it, I just get self-conscious. In a way the sweaty palms hold me back, because I remember when I was younger and girls would say "eww why are you're hands wet?" I can laugh at it now but when I'm out on dates I think about it and try to keep from contact as not to freak her out. Any advice on this little subject?

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"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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maybe you have hyperhydrosis
 

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I suppose the less nervous you get the less you sweat. I used to sweat a lot when first meeting people. But now I have a job where I'm always shaking hands and touching people. Doesn't happen anymore.

So I think the solution is to just quite frankly... start touching more people in your day-to-day life.
 

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I'm know it is me being nervous, I'll see if your advice works flexion.

What the hell is hyperhydrosis? Going by the context of the thread and the word's root I'm guessing it has to do with sweating a lot. Is that really a condition?
 
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