"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Sweaty Situation

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I'm not a shy dude, I slowly grew out of that. But I do have a problem, I guess I get nervous and my hands sweat. I don't have panic attacks about it, I just get self-conscious. In a way the sweaty palms hold me back, because I remember when I was younger and girls would say "eww why are you're hands wet?" I can laugh at it now but when I'm out on dates I think about it and try to keep from contact as not to freak her out. Any advice on this little subject?

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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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maybe you have hyperhydrosis
 

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I suppose the less nervous you get the less you sweat. I used to sweat a lot when first meeting people. But now I have a job where I'm always shaking hands and touching people. Doesn't happen anymore.

So I think the solution is to just quite frankly... start touching more people in your day-to-day life.
 

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I'm know it is me being nervous, I'll see if your advice works flexion.

What the hell is hyperhydrosis? Going by the context of the thread and the word's root I'm guessing it has to do with sweating a lot. Is that really a condition?
 
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