okay, everyones about bathing, deodorant, cologne, etc. but whats the deal with phermones being secreted by your sweat glands? how does that play into wearing deodorant/cologne? what is the best 'smell method' to help stimulate attraction?
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Worth every penny.i dunno all about colognes and stuff but someone recommended it to me and it costs 50 friggen bucks so it better be awesome
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Oh boy, here we go again with the whole looks vs. game thing, but I see you said "for clubbing" so maybe you're right in that case.... I don't know, I haven't been clubbing. But for the sake of consistency, if you get some shallow club chicks, at least put money up there with social proof.Originally posted by quest
basically, it aint going to do anything for the girls.
Otherwise to be a PUA, you'd be a taxi driver.
BUT there was a study i saw on TV. They put the pheromones on a chair in a doctors waiting room, and that chair + the surrounding chairs were the most popular of the day.
They did it the next day to a new chair, same deal.
and for a few more days.
Always the chair with the pheromones attracted the most activity..
does the sweatiest person in the club have the most girls? -hell no.
for clubbing Social Proof > Looks > Game > Confidence > Money > Pheromones > AFC..