okay, everyones about bathing, deodorant, cologne, etc. but whats the deal with phermones being secreted by your sweat glands? how does that play into wearing deodorant/cologne? what is the best 'smell method' to help stimulate attraction?
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Worth every penny.i dunno all about colognes and stuff but someone recommended it to me and it costs 50 friggen bucks so it better be awesome
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Oh boy, here we go again with the whole looks vs. game thing, but I see you said "for clubbing" so maybe you're right in that case.... I don't know, I haven't been clubbing. But for the sake of consistency, if you get some shallow club chicks, at least put money up there with social proof.Originally posted by quest
basically, it aint going to do anything for the girls.
Otherwise to be a PUA, you'd be a taxi driver.
BUT there was a study i saw on TV. They put the pheromones on a chair in a doctors waiting room, and that chair + the surrounding chairs were the most popular of the day.
They did it the next day to a new chair, same deal.
and for a few more days.
Always the chair with the pheromones attracted the most activity..
does the sweatiest person in the club have the most girls? -hell no.
for clubbing Social Proof > Looks > Game > Confidence > Money > Pheromones > AFC..