okay, everyones about bathing, deodorant, cologne, etc. but whats the deal with phermones being secreted by your sweat glands? how does that play into wearing deodorant/cologne? what is the best 'smell method' to help stimulate attraction?
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Worth every penny.i dunno all about colognes and stuff but someone recommended it to me and it costs 50 friggen bucks so it better be awesome
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Oh boy, here we go again with the whole looks vs. game thing, but I see you said "for clubbing" so maybe you're right in that case.... I don't know, I haven't been clubbing. But for the sake of consistency, if you get some shallow club chicks, at least put money up there with social proof.Originally posted by quest
basically, it aint going to do anything for the girls.
Otherwise to be a PUA, you'd be a taxi driver.
BUT there was a study i saw on TV. They put the pheromones on a chair in a doctors waiting room, and that chair + the surrounding chairs were the most popular of the day.
They did it the next day to a new chair, same deal.
and for a few more days.
Always the chair with the pheromones attracted the most activity..
does the sweatiest person in the club have the most girls? -hell no.
for clubbing Social Proof > Looks > Game > Confidence > Money > Pheromones > AFC..