"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Swearing during sex
- Thread starter Cinamon
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"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
Rollo Tomassi
Master Don Juan
Hehheh,..yet another shinning example of biology trumping conviction. The vagina's made believers out of more men than any prophet ever could.Cinamon said:
yeah but you can see the truth in what the prophet warns about. Women know the influence their beauty can have over men and the corruption it can manifest. The same way Eve persuaded her husband to take a bite of the apple and join in her guilt.Rollo Tomassi said:
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
But swearing? Oh hell no. No swearing in my place dammit. Don't want the neighbors to think I'm a weirdo now do i? haha
fertileTurtle
Master Don Juan
fertileTurtle
Master Don Juan
I stopped caring about her orgasm.shaunuk said:Yeah you get the contrived swearing which is kind of a turn-off like, "yeah **** me harder" *fake porn star moans*....which you can tell are fake because you've barely got going
If a woman doesn't moan or swear during sex then you are doing something wrong.
Its a big turn off for me if a woman I am banging is as quiet as a mouse or just lies there like a dead cold fish.
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
fertileTurtle
Master Don Juan
I know I do. People are always surprised when they hear how old I am. I bet you like it in the butt. Women your age always do.Cinamon said:
prairiedog24
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I Love it when a girl swears during sex.I like to be called everything under the sun and the more filth and swearing there is the better.Things like " go on F--- Me you Dirty F---ing Ba----d" and " Stick that C--- of yours right up Inside me you dirty F---ing C---" I think it is a real turn on. If you can ever get away with it,then I suggest you do this again whenever you have sex.Go for it girl.
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
tsmith2334
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Rayneveres
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Da Realist
Master Don Juan
Joe Stud
Master Don Juan
Julius_Seizeher
Master Don Juan
What a strange combination!
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.