You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Hehheh,..yet another shinning example of biology trumping conviction. The vagina's made believers out of more men than any prophet ever could.Cinamon said:I had mentioned to him in passing before that i dont like beards, cause the scratch the inside of my thighs, so he shaved it. I know that was kind of a big deal for sikhs, as it is mandatory, but i didnt ask him to do it, he just did it. I guess he was thinkin I am gonna be sinning anyway, what diff does it make if its one or two.
yeah but you can see the truth in what the prophet warns about. Women know the influence their beauty can have over men and the corruption it can manifest. The same way Eve persuaded her husband to take a bite of the apple and join in her guilt.Rollo Tomassi said:Hehheh,..yet another shinning example of biology trumping conviction. The vagina's made believers out of more men than any prophet ever could.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
I stopped caring about her orgasm.shaunuk said:Yeah you get the contrived swearing which is kind of a turn-off like, "yeah **** me harder" *fake porn star moans*....which you can tell are fake because you've barely got going![]()
You cheeky git. Lol. I'm only a year older than you. Anyway, it's not that big an issue if u look younger than u are.fertileTurtle said:You sound like a fun fvck, dirty slut. Your the type of girl I wouldn't mind being my betch for a night or two. 30 is kind of old however. Please teach your younger girlfriends that this is what they should do.
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
I know I do. People are always surprised when they hear how old I am. I bet you like it in the butt. Women your age always do.Cinamon said:You cheeky git. Lol. I'm only a year older than you. Anyway, it's not that big an issue if u look younger than u are.
Nope, that just lets the guy know he's doing a good job. The guy you were with seems shy and clearly wasn't ready for that.Cinamon said:I took a guys virginity last night, it was more of a guided tour of the female body, and how to stimulate it. Anyway, he knew that this was a one time deal and I werent going to see him again after this and he was cool with it.
Personality wise, he is a very good little sikh man, semi-religious and seems to hail from a respectable family.
Well during sex, once i get going, i tend to swear alot, and i was calling him all sorts, like u filthy b@stard, etc. Afterwards he told me the swearing was really disturbing for him. I can help but curse during sex, is this wrong, should i not be doing this? Although i never thought about this before, i think this may have driven a couple of guys away. He also said I was too rough with him in bed... is that off putting?
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.