Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
Hehheh,..yet another shinning example of biology trumping conviction. The vagina's made believers out of more men than any prophet ever could.Cinamon said:I had mentioned to him in passing before that i dont like beards, cause the scratch the inside of my thighs, so he shaved it. I know that was kind of a big deal for sikhs, as it is mandatory, but i didnt ask him to do it, he just did it. I guess he was thinkin I am gonna be sinning anyway, what diff does it make if its one or two.
yeah but you can see the truth in what the prophet warns about. Women know the influence their beauty can have over men and the corruption it can manifest. The same way Eve persuaded her husband to take a bite of the apple and join in her guilt.Rollo Tomassi said:Hehheh,..yet another shinning example of biology trumping conviction. The vagina's made believers out of more men than any prophet ever could.
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
I stopped caring about her orgasm.shaunuk said:Yeah you get the contrived swearing which is kind of a turn-off like, "yeah **** me harder" *fake porn star moans*....which you can tell are fake because you've barely got going![]()
You cheeky git. Lol. I'm only a year older than you. Anyway, it's not that big an issue if u look younger than u are.fertileTurtle said:You sound like a fun fvck, dirty slut. Your the type of girl I wouldn't mind being my betch for a night or two. 30 is kind of old however. Please teach your younger girlfriends that this is what they should do.
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
I know I do. People are always surprised when they hear how old I am. I bet you like it in the butt. Women your age always do.Cinamon said:You cheeky git. Lol. I'm only a year older than you. Anyway, it's not that big an issue if u look younger than u are.
Nope, that just lets the guy know he's doing a good job. The guy you were with seems shy and clearly wasn't ready for that.Cinamon said:I took a guys virginity last night, it was more of a guided tour of the female body, and how to stimulate it. Anyway, he knew that this was a one time deal and I werent going to see him again after this and he was cool with it.
Personality wise, he is a very good little sikh man, semi-religious and seems to hail from a respectable family.
Well during sex, once i get going, i tend to swear alot, and i was calling him all sorts, like u filthy b@stard, etc. Afterwards he told me the swearing was really disturbing for him. I can help but curse during sex, is this wrong, should i not be doing this? Although i never thought about this before, i think this may have driven a couple of guys away. He also said I was too rough with him in bed... is that off putting?
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.