"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Weaselpuke

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Guys answer me this..

Why do women who are married or in a relationships try to set there friends up with guys they know ?

Is it that they would date these guys if they were single or do the just want to see them with a woman ?

I have a friend who has a couple female friends and they are always setting him up with women.

I think its time for me to find a female friend with alot of single friends:)
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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NewMan

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It's the women's physcie (sp?)

Women's goal is to be involved in a relationship with a man - marrage and ultimately kids. There are exceptions of course.

Therefore - they are trying to set their friends up with guys - so they can be couples......

I generally stay well clear of this - because if things do not work out - your sitting in the fire line.
 

gentleman193

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Women who are taken but still want you *never* set you up with their friends. They are "keeping" you for themselves. Same as you never setup hot females with your guy friends, even if you are taken yourself. At least, I never do.

On the other hand, people love to setup blind dates when they are *not* interested in the parties involved. I would not underestimate the value of this . . . to them. My own motive is usually to get someone off of my hands. An AFC guy or an UG female.

So your female friends probably want to get a guy for their female friends so on their next girls night out they can hear about something besides how depressed she is that she doesn't have a BF.

Advice: Think twice before you play the stooge. And, kiddie gloves if you go for it and want to keep the friends.
 

HuuBinh

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a lot of women like to play the role of a matchmaker.
 
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