"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Weaselpuke

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Guys answer me this..

Why do women who are married or in a relationships try to set there friends up with guys they know ?

Is it that they would date these guys if they were single or do the just want to see them with a woman ?

I have a friend who has a couple female friends and they are always setting him up with women.

I think its time for me to find a female friend with alot of single friends:)
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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NewMan

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It's the women's physcie (sp?)

Women's goal is to be involved in a relationship with a man - marrage and ultimately kids. There are exceptions of course.

Therefore - they are trying to set their friends up with guys - so they can be couples......

I generally stay well clear of this - because if things do not work out - your sitting in the fire line.
 

gentleman193

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Women who are taken but still want you *never* set you up with their friends. They are "keeping" you for themselves. Same as you never setup hot females with your guy friends, even if you are taken yourself. At least, I never do.

On the other hand, people love to setup blind dates when they are *not* interested in the parties involved. I would not underestimate the value of this . . . to them. My own motive is usually to get someone off of my hands. An AFC guy or an UG female.

So your female friends probably want to get a guy for their female friends so on their next girls night out they can hear about something besides how depressed she is that she doesn't have a BF.

Advice: Think twice before you play the stooge. And, kiddie gloves if you go for it and want to keep the friends.
 

HuuBinh

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a lot of women like to play the role of a matchmaker.
 
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