"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Surprise Compliment

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Hey guys, was talking to a girl the other day on aim, and she was kind of depressed cuz she had recently been dumped by her bf. We had kind of been sharing our sorrows, I recently became single too. Shes cute, probably HB 8, and shes a cool person to talk to and we're just friends but I like to throw in a couple come ons every now. It'd been a while since I had talked to her and she had sent me a couple recent pics of her so I had an idea to cheer her up a little bit. It went something like

me- so I saw this really cute chic today
her- yeah?
me- yeah she seemed kinda down though, I've been tryin to think up ways to cheer her up a bit
her- awe, thats nice of you, how come shes sad
me- oh something about her boyfriend being an @ss and dumping her and what not
her- lol thanks Kourt

It was the kind of subtle compliment that seemed to cheer her up a bit and I figure it can be used in quiet a few other situations so I throught I'd throw it out there for you guys to mull over and/or comment on
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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IMHO the whole shoulder-to-cry-on approach seems a bit AFC-ish for me and being the rebound guy is a one way ticket to disappointment.
 
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haha, I have no intentions of every doing anything with her, just idle chit chat and all that good stuff so its not like i'm every going to lose out on anything
 
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Kourt said:
haha, I have no intentions of every doing anything with her, just idle chit chat and all that good stuff so its not like i'm every going to lose out on anything
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Bullcrap, you pretty much want to fvck her - wich is a good thing or else you would have to reattach your dyck.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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haha, well she lives about 2,000 miles away, so really, theres no way I am ever getting in her pants lol
 
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I think people are missing the point of the thread,which is titled "surprise compliment".Similar to SOI for all you MM readers/followers,but done in an "under the radar" kind of way.For all that find it difficult to really pass a soi/neg naturally but don't want to directly compliment a girl.

edit: an example

guy:i know this girl that's attractive but has no fashion sense! how can i tell her that without hurting her feelings?
hb: X and Y
guy: X and Y
 
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