"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Surprise Compliment

Kourt

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Hey guys, was talking to a girl the other day on aim, and she was kind of depressed cuz she had recently been dumped by her bf. We had kind of been sharing our sorrows, I recently became single too. Shes cute, probably HB 8, and shes a cool person to talk to and we're just friends but I like to throw in a couple come ons every now. It'd been a while since I had talked to her and she had sent me a couple recent pics of her so I had an idea to cheer her up a little bit. It went something like

me- so I saw this really cute chic today
her- yeah?
me- yeah she seemed kinda down though, I've been tryin to think up ways to cheer her up a bit
her- awe, thats nice of you, how come shes sad
me- oh something about her boyfriend being an @ss and dumping her and what not
her- lol thanks Kourt

It was the kind of subtle compliment that seemed to cheer her up a bit and I figure it can be used in quiet a few other situations so I throught I'd throw it out there for you guys to mull over and/or comment on
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Blusher

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IMHO the whole shoulder-to-cry-on approach seems a bit AFC-ish for me and being the rebound guy is a one way ticket to disappointment.
 

Kourt

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haha, I have no intentions of every doing anything with her, just idle chit chat and all that good stuff so its not like i'm every going to lose out on anything
 

Krang!

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Kourt said:
haha, I have no intentions of every doing anything with her, just idle chit chat and all that good stuff so its not like i'm every going to lose out on anything
Bullcrap, you pretty much want to fvck her - wich is a good thing or else you would have to reattach your dyck.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Kourt

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haha, well she lives about 2,000 miles away, so really, theres no way I am ever getting in her pants lol
 

GloriouslyInsane

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I think people are missing the point of the thread,which is titled "surprise compliment".Similar to SOI for all you MM readers/followers,but done in an "under the radar" kind of way.For all that find it difficult to really pass a soi/neg naturally but don't want to directly compliment a girl.

edit: an example

guy:i know this girl that's attractive but has no fashion sense! how can i tell her that without hurting her feelings?
hb: X and Y
guy: X and Y
 
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