"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Hey guys, was talking to a girl the other day on aim, and she was kind of depressed cuz she had recently been dumped by her bf. We had kind of been sharing our sorrows, I recently became single too. Shes cute, probably HB 8, and shes a cool person to talk to and we're just friends but I like to throw in a couple come ons every now. It'd been a while since I had talked to her and she had sent me a couple recent pics of her so I had an idea to cheer her up a little bit. It went something like

me- so I saw this really cute chic today
her- yeah?
me- yeah she seemed kinda down though, I've been tryin to think up ways to cheer her up a bit
her- awe, thats nice of you, how come shes sad
me- oh something about her boyfriend being an @ss and dumping her and what not
her- lol thanks Kourt

It was the kind of subtle compliment that seemed to cheer her up a bit and I figure it can be used in quiet a few other situations so I throught I'd throw it out there for you guys to mull over and/or comment on
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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IMHO the whole shoulder-to-cry-on approach seems a bit AFC-ish for me and being the rebound guy is a one way ticket to disappointment.
 
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haha, I have no intentions of every doing anything with her, just idle chit chat and all that good stuff so its not like i'm every going to lose out on anything
 
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Kourt said:
haha, I have no intentions of every doing anything with her, just idle chit chat and all that good stuff so its not like i'm every going to lose out on anything
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Bullcrap, you pretty much want to fvck her - wich is a good thing or else you would have to reattach your dyck.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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haha, well she lives about 2,000 miles away, so really, theres no way I am ever getting in her pants lol
 
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I think people are missing the point of the thread,which is titled "surprise compliment".Similar to SOI for all you MM readers/followers,but done in an "under the radar" kind of way.For all that find it difficult to really pass a soi/neg naturally but don't want to directly compliment a girl.

edit: an example

guy:i know this girl that's attractive but has no fashion sense! how can i tell her that without hurting her feelings?
hb: X and Y
guy: X and Y
 
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