"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Surgery for abnormal cervix cells..

kzar_kzar

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There is a chick that I am hitting on, kissing, feeding and just some fun but recently she went for a surgery for abnormal cervix cells.
--- according to her it's not yet cancer, cannot have sex, will know if she will get cancer in the future or not in six months after going for appointments.

According to Google for what I understood after searching, abnormal cervix cells are caused by HPV, so my worry is that did I get infected by HPV, does kissing on lips result in HPV ? Another stupid question, does cervix cancer can be transmitted to guys in other forms or whatsoever...
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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There is no HPV test for men. I've known several girls that had pap smears come back that indicated abnormal cells(HPV) which can lead to cervical cancer. They go in and freeze their cervix to kills the bad cells, then go back and get tested again and its usually gone. Not a big deal. I've known several that had it. My exwife had it and I'm sure I did too. I had 2 girls afterwards that ended up with it. Its been a long time since I dated a girl that ended up with it. I do know it can go away on its own.

You might have it, you might not. You could have been the one who gave it to her.

I'm not worried about it. I like sex too much. We all die of something anyways. Live life. Enjoy hot girls and hot sex.
 

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so my worry is that did I get infected by HPV
Another stupid question, does cervix cancer can be transmitted to guys in other forms or whatsoever...
Do Not do oral on her. Google Michael Douglas and HPV, he had a very serious mouth/throat problem arise under similar conditions…
Probably depends on how far advanced her cells are though.
 
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HPV is the leading cause of oral cancers in men. Guess how the HPV virus gets into the oral cavity....oral sex. You do not want oral cancer. Believe me.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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