"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Surgery for abnormal cervix cells..

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There is a chick that I am hitting on, kissing, feeding and just some fun but recently she went for a surgery for abnormal cervix cells.
--- according to her it's not yet cancer, cannot have sex, will know if she will get cancer in the future or not in six months after going for appointments.

According to Google for what I understood after searching, abnormal cervix cells are caused by HPV, so my worry is that did I get infected by HPV, does kissing on lips result in HPV ? Another stupid question, does cervix cancer can be transmitted to guys in other forms or whatsoever...
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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There is no HPV test for men. I've known several girls that had pap smears come back that indicated abnormal cells(HPV) which can lead to cervical cancer. They go in and freeze their cervix to kills the bad cells, then go back and get tested again and its usually gone. Not a big deal. I've known several that had it. My exwife had it and I'm sure I did too. I had 2 girls afterwards that ended up with it. Its been a long time since I dated a girl that ended up with it. I do know it can go away on its own.

You might have it, you might not. You could have been the one who gave it to her.

I'm not worried about it. I like sex too much. We all die of something anyways. Live life. Enjoy hot girls and hot sex.
 

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so my worry is that did I get infected by HPV
Another stupid question, does cervix cancer can be transmitted to guys in other forms or whatsoever...
Do Not do oral on her. Google Michael Douglas and HPV, he had a very serious mouth/throat problem arise under similar conditions…
Probably depends on how far advanced her cells are though.
 
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HPV is the leading cause of oral cancers in men. Guess how the HPV virus gets into the oral cavity....oral sex. You do not want oral cancer. Believe me.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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