Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Surgery for abnormal cervix cells..

kzar_kzar

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There is a chick that I am hitting on, kissing, feeding and just some fun but recently she went for a surgery for abnormal cervix cells.
--- according to her it's not yet cancer, cannot have sex, will know if she will get cancer in the future or not in six months after going for appointments.

According to Google for what I understood after searching, abnormal cervix cells are caused by HPV, so my worry is that did I get infected by HPV, does kissing on lips result in HPV ? Another stupid question, does cervix cancer can be transmitted to guys in other forms or whatsoever...
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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The Duke

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There is no HPV test for men. I've known several girls that had pap smears come back that indicated abnormal cells(HPV) which can lead to cervical cancer. They go in and freeze their cervix to kills the bad cells, then go back and get tested again and its usually gone. Not a big deal. I've known several that had it. My exwife had it and I'm sure I did too. I had 2 girls afterwards that ended up with it. Its been a long time since I dated a girl that ended up with it. I do know it can go away on its own.

You might have it, you might not. You could have been the one who gave it to her.

I'm not worried about it. I like sex too much. We all die of something anyways. Live life. Enjoy hot girls and hot sex.
 

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so my worry is that did I get infected by HPV
Another stupid question, does cervix cancer can be transmitted to guys in other forms or whatsoever...
Do Not do oral on her. Google Michael Douglas and HPV, he had a very serious mouth/throat problem arise under similar conditions…
Probably depends on how far advanced her cells are though.
 
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HPV is the leading cause of oral cancers in men. Guess how the HPV virus gets into the oral cavity....oral sex. You do not want oral cancer. Believe me.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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