"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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*29*

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The reality is this:
You need to learn how to converse well.
That's it.

Kino, patterns, and whatever WILL NOT work if you cannot hold an above average conversation.

Now when I mean "above average" I do not picture someone mumbling, stuttering, shy, sweaty, lacking "confidence". I picture it to be like talking to your best friend, shooting the breeze.

When you're in public, what do you hear?
People talking!

How about drama shows?
People talking!

What about in the bathrooms?
People!

Conversing is your bread and butter.
Every other "move" is supplemental.

It's like taking creatine.
You NEED to work out. It is a primary thing to get big. Taking creatine helps you get a bit bigger only if you work out. Taking creatine and sitting on your as$ does not make you huge.

But what to say?

Why is it that you can always find something to talk about with your best friend, but not that hot girl you've always eyed?

Think about it. What makes this girl so intimidating before you've even talked to her? Rejection? I'm pretty sure you don't think your best friend is going to reject you when you guys are talking.

It is you who is making the situation unconfortable. Make it stop.

Experience is the best way to start.

Once again...

Kino, smiling, cologne are not miracle workers.

Your words are.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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A bore is someone who talks about himself, a gossip is someone who talks about others, a great CONVERSATIONALIST is someone who talks to you about YOU!

Read that again. You want to have a genuine interest in the person you're talking to.

Also want to add that you have to be a good listener. It's the other half of conversing. Don't know what it's like?

Look at this disscusion board.
People post (Talk)
Readers listen (Listen)
Readers reply (Talk)
Posters listen (Listen)
 
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Originally posted by *29*

Look at this disscusion board.
People post (Talk)
Readers listen (Listen)
Readers reply (Talk)
Posters listen (Listen)
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More like

People post (talk)
More people post (talk)
More people post (talk)

:p

Also, what about the fact that the things women want to talk about are usually utterly boring and trivial?
 
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Then she's probably boring and is wasting your time, but I haven't seen too many like this. Unless you're trying to fvck her for her looks, then....you know.
 
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When you're in public, what do you hear?
People talking!

How about drama shows?
People talking!

What about in the bathrooms?
People!
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I think that conversation is key but I do my best not to hear people in bathrooms. That's not conversation.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Originally posted by *29*
A bore is someone who talks about himself, a gossip is someone who talks about others, a great CONVERSATIONALIST is someone who talks to you about YOU!
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Perfect!

(Yours?)
 
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