"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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The reality is this:
You need to learn how to converse well.
That's it.

Kino, patterns, and whatever WILL NOT work if you cannot hold an above average conversation.

Now when I mean "above average" I do not picture someone mumbling, stuttering, shy, sweaty, lacking "confidence". I picture it to be like talking to your best friend, shooting the breeze.

When you're in public, what do you hear?
People talking!

How about drama shows?
People talking!

What about in the bathrooms?
People!

Conversing is your bread and butter.
Every other "move" is supplemental.

It's like taking creatine.
You NEED to work out. It is a primary thing to get big. Taking creatine helps you get a bit bigger only if you work out. Taking creatine and sitting on your as$ does not make you huge.

But what to say?

Why is it that you can always find something to talk about with your best friend, but not that hot girl you've always eyed?

Think about it. What makes this girl so intimidating before you've even talked to her? Rejection? I'm pretty sure you don't think your best friend is going to reject you when you guys are talking.

It is you who is making the situation unconfortable. Make it stop.

Experience is the best way to start.

Once again...

Kino, smiling, cologne are not miracle workers.

Your words are.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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A bore is someone who talks about himself, a gossip is someone who talks about others, a great CONVERSATIONALIST is someone who talks to you about YOU!

Read that again. You want to have a genuine interest in the person you're talking to.

Also want to add that you have to be a good listener. It's the other half of conversing. Don't know what it's like?

Look at this disscusion board.
People post (Talk)
Readers listen (Listen)
Readers reply (Talk)
Posters listen (Listen)
 
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Originally posted by *29*

Look at this disscusion board.
People post (Talk)
Readers listen (Listen)
Readers reply (Talk)
Posters listen (Listen)
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More like

People post (talk)
More people post (talk)
More people post (talk)

:p

Also, what about the fact that the things women want to talk about are usually utterly boring and trivial?
 
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Then she's probably boring and is wasting your time, but I haven't seen too many like this. Unless you're trying to fvck her for her looks, then....you know.
 
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When you're in public, what do you hear?
People talking!

How about drama shows?
People talking!

What about in the bathrooms?
People!
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I think that conversation is key but I do my best not to hear people in bathrooms. That's not conversation.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Originally posted by *29*
A bore is someone who talks about himself, a gossip is someone who talks about others, a great CONVERSATIONALIST is someone who talks to you about YOU!
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Perfect!

(Yours?)
 
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