You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Ha, funny enough, this has what TV has ultimately come to for me, just laughing at the terribleness of it all. They are marketing HARD to the female population. I will probably watch the Super Bowl and drink some lite beer while I do, making me a hypocrite, but oh well, it's literally the only NFL game I have seen this year. I'm sure Katy Perry will make an ass out of herself at half-time too.Espi said:I stopped watching professional football, baseball, and basketball last year. Haven't watched a single NFL game this year.
Even though I won't be watching, I will say, Watch out for those feminist ads Fellas. This would be a great time to convey to friends and family about how much misandry is featured in those ads.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
I'm looking forward to just that.Espi said:Even though I won't be watching, I will say, Watch out for those feminist ads Fellas. This would be a great time to convey to friends and family about how much misandry is featured in those ads.
Darth said:Go Patriots. I don't think there was any wrongdoing there with the deflating incident (and I'm from New England-easy).