"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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SUPER QUICK TIPS........r u ready......

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ok just listing the number 1 tips without going into the rest......so here we go really super fast.

BARS/CLUBS-utilize a wingman

SPEED DATING-get there early & mingle at bar/cologne

NET DATING-learn to write email enticements

PHONE-keep it short, ask her out

VOICEMAIL-tease her with a nic name, leave a #, humor

BODY LANGUAGE-sit/stand straight, lean back a little.

ONE NITE STANDS-know the difference between the token NO and an out-right HELL NO

FIRST DATES-action dates, arrive a few minutes late

C & F-know the difference between tease and an insult

GETTING HER BACK-a lil exposure to jealousy speaks volumes.

OLDER WOMEN-compliment, flirt, allolw them to take control.

DATING 2 OR MORE AT ONCE-adopt the spinning plates philosophy

COMPLIMENTS-be specific & use sparingly

HOW TO GET A GIRLFRIEND-increase contact frequency

KISSING-slow down, caress face.

TEXT FLIRTING-incorporate a nic name 4 her

INSTANT MESSAGING-ask a question

GETTING HER DIGITS-own a cell phone

WHERE TO MEET WOMEN-in line

CHEATING 101-leave no trails (PAY PHONE, work computer, make it quick)

ATTRACTION-smile & humo

DATING A HOTTIE-active diss-interest

MARRIED CHICS-motels, no personal info exchanged, keep it sexual

REJECTION-its no big deal, move on

CONFIDENCE-fake it til you make it

COLD APPROACHES: ask if they have email first

REPEL WOMEN-bull dog approach....too fast too soon.

AVOIDING 1-ITIS-date multiple people
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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^Why the hell do you quote the whole thing?Just say QTF for fvcks sakes bud just makes more scrolling for no real reason
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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619joe said:
^Why the hell do you quote the whole thing?Just say QTF for fvcks sakes bud just makes more scrolling for no real reason
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Check it out now buddy. You happy?
 
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Vlad the Impaler said:
Qft
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But where's the quoted material :confused:? j/k :D. This was a pretty good cheat sheet. I'd like to see if someone else could give some different answers. I'm too lazy to do it. I might pick a couple to answer on later.
 
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BARS/CLUBS-late approaches can have a higher close ratio


NET DATING-have good pics


VOICEMAIL-don't leave one


FIRST DATES-take her for a drink


GETTING HER DIGITS-call her phone so you know you got her number down right
 
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