"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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SUPER QUICK TIPS........r u ready......

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ok just listing the number 1 tips without going into the rest......so here we go really super fast.

BARS/CLUBS-utilize a wingman

SPEED DATING-get there early & mingle at bar/cologne

NET DATING-learn to write email enticements

PHONE-keep it short, ask her out

VOICEMAIL-tease her with a nic name, leave a #, humor

BODY LANGUAGE-sit/stand straight, lean back a little.

ONE NITE STANDS-know the difference between the token NO and an out-right HELL NO

FIRST DATES-action dates, arrive a few minutes late

C & F-know the difference between tease and an insult

GETTING HER BACK-a lil exposure to jealousy speaks volumes.

OLDER WOMEN-compliment, flirt, allolw them to take control.

DATING 2 OR MORE AT ONCE-adopt the spinning plates philosophy

COMPLIMENTS-be specific & use sparingly

HOW TO GET A GIRLFRIEND-increase contact frequency

KISSING-slow down, caress face.

TEXT FLIRTING-incorporate a nic name 4 her

INSTANT MESSAGING-ask a question

GETTING HER DIGITS-own a cell phone

WHERE TO MEET WOMEN-in line

CHEATING 101-leave no trails (PAY PHONE, work computer, make it quick)

ATTRACTION-smile & humo

DATING A HOTTIE-active diss-interest

MARRIED CHICS-motels, no personal info exchanged, keep it sexual

REJECTION-its no big deal, move on

CONFIDENCE-fake it til you make it

COLD APPROACHES: ask if they have email first

REPEL WOMEN-bull dog approach....too fast too soon.

AVOIDING 1-ITIS-date multiple people
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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^Why the hell do you quote the whole thing?Just say QTF for fvcks sakes bud just makes more scrolling for no real reason
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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619joe said:
^Why the hell do you quote the whole thing?Just say QTF for fvcks sakes bud just makes more scrolling for no real reason
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Check it out now buddy. You happy?
 
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Vlad the Impaler said:
Qft
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But where's the quoted material :confused:? j/k :D. This was a pretty good cheat sheet. I'd like to see if someone else could give some different answers. I'm too lazy to do it. I might pick a couple to answer on later.
 
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BARS/CLUBS-late approaches can have a higher close ratio


NET DATING-have good pics


VOICEMAIL-don't leave one


FIRST DATES-take her for a drink


GETTING HER DIGITS-call her phone so you know you got her number down right
 
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