"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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SUPER QUICK TIPS........r u ready......

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ok just listing the number 1 tips without going into the rest......so here we go really super fast.

BARS/CLUBS-utilize a wingman

SPEED DATING-get there early & mingle at bar/cologne

NET DATING-learn to write email enticements

PHONE-keep it short, ask her out

VOICEMAIL-tease her with a nic name, leave a #, humor

BODY LANGUAGE-sit/stand straight, lean back a little.

ONE NITE STANDS-know the difference between the token NO and an out-right HELL NO

FIRST DATES-action dates, arrive a few minutes late

C & F-know the difference between tease and an insult

GETTING HER BACK-a lil exposure to jealousy speaks volumes.

OLDER WOMEN-compliment, flirt, allolw them to take control.

DATING 2 OR MORE AT ONCE-adopt the spinning plates philosophy

COMPLIMENTS-be specific & use sparingly

HOW TO GET A GIRLFRIEND-increase contact frequency

KISSING-slow down, caress face.

TEXT FLIRTING-incorporate a nic name 4 her

INSTANT MESSAGING-ask a question

GETTING HER DIGITS-own a cell phone

WHERE TO MEET WOMEN-in line

CHEATING 101-leave no trails (PAY PHONE, work computer, make it quick)

ATTRACTION-smile & humo

DATING A HOTTIE-active diss-interest

MARRIED CHICS-motels, no personal info exchanged, keep it sexual

REJECTION-its no big deal, move on

CONFIDENCE-fake it til you make it

COLD APPROACHES: ask if they have email first

REPEL WOMEN-bull dog approach....too fast too soon.

AVOIDING 1-ITIS-date multiple people
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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^Why the hell do you quote the whole thing?Just say QTF for fvcks sakes bud just makes more scrolling for no real reason
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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619joe said:
^Why the hell do you quote the whole thing?Just say QTF for fvcks sakes bud just makes more scrolling for no real reason

Check it out now buddy. You happy?
 

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Vlad the Impaler said:
But where's the quoted material :confused:? j/k :D. This was a pretty good cheat sheet. I'd like to see if someone else could give some different answers. I'm too lazy to do it. I might pick a couple to answer on later.
 

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BARS/CLUBS-late approaches can have a higher close ratio


NET DATING-have good pics


VOICEMAIL-don't leave one


FIRST DATES-take her for a drink


GETTING HER DIGITS-call her phone so you know you got her number down right
 
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