"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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SUPER QUICK TIPS........r u ready......

COD

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ok just listing the number 1 tips without going into the rest......so here we go really super fast.

BARS/CLUBS-utilize a wingman

SPEED DATING-get there early & mingle at bar/cologne

NET DATING-learn to write email enticements

PHONE-keep it short, ask her out

VOICEMAIL-tease her with a nic name, leave a #, humor

BODY LANGUAGE-sit/stand straight, lean back a little.

ONE NITE STANDS-know the difference between the token NO and an out-right HELL NO

FIRST DATES-action dates, arrive a few minutes late

C & F-know the difference between tease and an insult

GETTING HER BACK-a lil exposure to jealousy speaks volumes.

OLDER WOMEN-compliment, flirt, allolw them to take control.

DATING 2 OR MORE AT ONCE-adopt the spinning plates philosophy

COMPLIMENTS-be specific & use sparingly

HOW TO GET A GIRLFRIEND-increase contact frequency

KISSING-slow down, caress face.

TEXT FLIRTING-incorporate a nic name 4 her

INSTANT MESSAGING-ask a question

GETTING HER DIGITS-own a cell phone

WHERE TO MEET WOMEN-in line

CHEATING 101-leave no trails (PAY PHONE, work computer, make it quick)

ATTRACTION-smile & humo

DATING A HOTTIE-active diss-interest

MARRIED CHICS-motels, no personal info exchanged, keep it sexual

REJECTION-its no big deal, move on

CONFIDENCE-fake it til you make it

COLD APPROACHES: ask if they have email first

REPEL WOMEN-bull dog approach....too fast too soon.

AVOIDING 1-ITIS-date multiple people
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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619joe

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^Why the hell do you quote the whole thing?Just say QTF for fvcks sakes bud just makes more scrolling for no real reason
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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619joe said:
^Why the hell do you quote the whole thing?Just say QTF for fvcks sakes bud just makes more scrolling for no real reason

Check it out now buddy. You happy?
 

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Vlad the Impaler said:
But where's the quoted material :confused:? j/k :D. This was a pretty good cheat sheet. I'd like to see if someone else could give some different answers. I'm too lazy to do it. I might pick a couple to answer on later.
 

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BARS/CLUBS-late approaches can have a higher close ratio


NET DATING-have good pics


VOICEMAIL-don't leave one


FIRST DATES-take her for a drink


GETTING HER DIGITS-call her phone so you know you got her number down right
 
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