"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Sunglasses at night? Cool or too duchbaggish?

TheBaconator

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I've always felt that people wearing sunglasses at night were trying to hard to look cool, however i'm contemplating wearing them out this weekend (silver ones) cuz I shaved and now regret it cuz I look 15 and have doubts a woman will take me seriously.

What do you guys think of dudes who wear glasses out?

Also, any other tips to make myself look like i'm not a freshman in HS until I grow out my facial hair again?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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TheBaconator said:
I've always felt that people wearing sunglasses at night were trying to hard to look cool, however i'm contemplating wearing them out this weekend (silver ones) cuz I shaved and now regret it cuz I look 15 and have doubts a woman will take me seriously.

What do you guys think of dudes who wear glasses out?

Also, any other tips to make myself look like i'm not a freshman in HS until I grow out my facial hair again?
Since you want to wear them for the fact that girls will not take you seriously.... DON'T WEAR THEM. :up:
 

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You know why people used to wear sunglasses at night? Because they were either strung out on something or drunk all the time, so they wore shades to mask their bloodshot eyes, they're trying to hard to be cool, or they're hiding a black eye. Don't be any of those except for the last one as long as you won the fight.
 

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It's supposed to prove you have balls. So just have balls.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Sunglasses at night inside a bar is and will always be complete and udder Douchebaggery :down: :down:
 

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Alrightt I get the point. **** thou, I really look like a baby. How can I use that to my advantage?


EDIT: Just thinking about it more I think turtle might be onto something with this. Hear me out, most dudes won't wear them out at night probably cuz they think people will judge them as duches. Now if I do wear them cuz I like them isn't that me showing that I could care less what others think of me?
 
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Wear them!!! Hater Shades always pull chics. Don't worry about all the guys in the club who cant stand you. Cuz you can't see them. Thats what the shades are for!
 

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I'm starting more and more to agree with rakishness. This last dude seems to have tons of hostility towards the concept of glasses at night, and i'm sure alot would feel the same. But who cares. If I feel they will make me look better then fck it.

Yea it may make me come off as an ahole, but my personality around girls is generally follows that suit anyway. And i'm sure some will think it's trying to hard and even may say something, but i'll just put them in there place.

San Jose, so the reason you stopped wearing them was because some girl told you not to? Sounds kinda AFC to me. How did you respond? I would come back with something like "as long as you don't wear that (fill in the blank) again".
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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San Jose California said:
Enough with the crazy online lingo "AFC". It shows how much experience you actually have. I didn't stop wearing them for that reason. I've always noticed that people who wear SAN are trying to pull off the stylish guy who sticks out. Problem is, everyone sees that guy as the guy trying too hard to look like the stylish guy who sticks out.

Kinda like those pre-pubescent boys who grows the crustache thinking they appear to society as a guy with a stylish mustache when really he looks like a pre-pubescent boy who's trying to hard to look stylish and doesn't know he has a crustache.

Dude after looking at some of your past threads you really are in no position to be calling out how much experience I may or may not have.

Come on man, some examples "when should you tell a girl your a virgin", "should I stop chewing gum cuz my friends say girls don't like it", "Should a guy only go after a girl equal or lower in looks". I'm no virgin like you so there goes your judgment about my supposed lack of experience.

So stop trying to insult me, maybe you need to try a little harder to stop conforming to what you think everyone will think and stop giving a fck so much. Like rak said, it is a ballsy move and despite what you think everyone will think about it, I'm sure at least some chicks will digg it.
 

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sunnies would probably go over really well in a 'peacocking' sense. why not add some 'kiss' style make up while you're at it? I've done it, it was heaps fun. As a norm though, i'd advise against it but... at the end of the day, it's your life. Do w/e you feel like doing. DJ is a mindset not a trend.
 

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San Jose California said:
You're trying a little too hard to insult me by changing my thread topics to your liking, all to impress a bunch of dudes online. All I gotta say.
Hey man, I was just responding to your hostility. But seriously, i'm trying to give you some advice. Women like aholes. Women like men who don't care what others think (even if deep down they do).
 

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TheBaconator said:
I've always felt that people wearing sunglasses at night were trying to hard to look cool, however i'm contemplating wearing them out this weekend (silver ones) cuz I shaved and now regret it cuz I look 15 and have doubts a woman will take me seriously.

What do you guys think of dudes who wear glasses out?

Also, any other tips to make myself look like i'm not a freshman in HS until I grow out my facial hair again?
Forget about trying to *look* older

Forget about trying to figure out if it is acceptable to wear sunglasses at night

You need to ask yourself honestly: 'Can I pull off wearing sunglasses at night? Am I completely comfortable doing it?'

If yes - then go for it

If not - drop it like it's hot

Girls will be able to smell your uncomfortableness from miles away
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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I wear sunglasses at night all the time. I prefer doing it while I'm driving and I make sure to keep my head lights off so it's even more fun:rolleyes:

Seriously don't do that unless you're a coke dealer and it's your signal.
 

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It's cool if you wanna look like cyclops from X men

why would you where them at night? wouldn't it be hard to see?
 
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Cop: Hey kid. Why do you wear sunglasses at night?
Vince Latello: Because when you're cool, the sun shines on you 24 hours a day.

- My Science Project

Nice.
 

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its a peacock and girls are more likely to approach you,

plus fellow sunglass at night brethren will approach you to offer support,

atleast in my experience
 

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I wear these




Lol seriously tho I never have but I would if I felt like it. I mean if you wanna call out douchebaggish stuff, then the club is not the place to do it because most of what people wear to clubs they wouldnt rock on a daily basis, usually and if they did people would think they are douches.

At the club everybody is a rock(rap)star. Its all in good fun anyway. Go with it brah
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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