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Sunglasses at night? Cool or too duchbaggish?

TheBaconator

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I've always felt that people wearing sunglasses at night were trying to hard to look cool, however i'm contemplating wearing them out this weekend (silver ones) cuz I shaved and now regret it cuz I look 15 and have doubts a woman will take me seriously.

What do you guys think of dudes who wear glasses out?

Also, any other tips to make myself look like i'm not a freshman in HS until I grow out my facial hair again?
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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TheBaconator said:
I've always felt that people wearing sunglasses at night were trying to hard to look cool, however i'm contemplating wearing them out this weekend (silver ones) cuz I shaved and now regret it cuz I look 15 and have doubts a woman will take me seriously.

What do you guys think of dudes who wear glasses out?

Also, any other tips to make myself look like i'm not a freshman in HS until I grow out my facial hair again?
Since you want to wear them for the fact that girls will not take you seriously.... DON'T WEAR THEM. :up:
 

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You know why people used to wear sunglasses at night? Because they were either strung out on something or drunk all the time, so they wore shades to mask their bloodshot eyes, they're trying to hard to be cool, or they're hiding a black eye. Don't be any of those except for the last one as long as you won the fight.
 

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It's supposed to prove you have balls. So just have balls.
 

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You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Sunglasses at night inside a bar is and will always be complete and udder Douchebaggery :down: :down:
 

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Alrightt I get the point. **** thou, I really look like a baby. How can I use that to my advantage?


EDIT: Just thinking about it more I think turtle might be onto something with this. Hear me out, most dudes won't wear them out at night probably cuz they think people will judge them as duches. Now if I do wear them cuz I like them isn't that me showing that I could care less what others think of me?
 
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Wear them!!! Hater Shades always pull chics. Don't worry about all the guys in the club who cant stand you. Cuz you can't see them. Thats what the shades are for!
 

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I'm starting more and more to agree with rakishness. This last dude seems to have tons of hostility towards the concept of glasses at night, and i'm sure alot would feel the same. But who cares. If I feel they will make me look better then fck it.

Yea it may make me come off as an ahole, but my personality around girls is generally follows that suit anyway. And i'm sure some will think it's trying to hard and even may say something, but i'll just put them in there place.

San Jose, so the reason you stopped wearing them was because some girl told you not to? Sounds kinda AFC to me. How did you respond? I would come back with something like "as long as you don't wear that (fill in the blank) again".
 

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San Jose California said:
Enough with the crazy online lingo "AFC". It shows how much experience you actually have. I didn't stop wearing them for that reason. I've always noticed that people who wear SAN are trying to pull off the stylish guy who sticks out. Problem is, everyone sees that guy as the guy trying too hard to look like the stylish guy who sticks out.

Kinda like those pre-pubescent boys who grows the crustache thinking they appear to society as a guy with a stylish mustache when really he looks like a pre-pubescent boy who's trying to hard to look stylish and doesn't know he has a crustache.

Dude after looking at some of your past threads you really are in no position to be calling out how much experience I may or may not have.

Come on man, some examples "when should you tell a girl your a virgin", "should I stop chewing gum cuz my friends say girls don't like it", "Should a guy only go after a girl equal or lower in looks". I'm no virgin like you so there goes your judgment about my supposed lack of experience.

So stop trying to insult me, maybe you need to try a little harder to stop conforming to what you think everyone will think and stop giving a fck so much. Like rak said, it is a ballsy move and despite what you think everyone will think about it, I'm sure at least some chicks will digg it.
 

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sunnies would probably go over really well in a 'peacocking' sense. why not add some 'kiss' style make up while you're at it? I've done it, it was heaps fun. As a norm though, i'd advise against it but... at the end of the day, it's your life. Do w/e you feel like doing. DJ is a mindset not a trend.
 

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San Jose California said:
You're trying a little too hard to insult me by changing my thread topics to your liking, all to impress a bunch of dudes online. All I gotta say.
Hey man, I was just responding to your hostility. But seriously, i'm trying to give you some advice. Women like aholes. Women like men who don't care what others think (even if deep down they do).
 

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TheBaconator said:
I've always felt that people wearing sunglasses at night were trying to hard to look cool, however i'm contemplating wearing them out this weekend (silver ones) cuz I shaved and now regret it cuz I look 15 and have doubts a woman will take me seriously.

What do you guys think of dudes who wear glasses out?

Also, any other tips to make myself look like i'm not a freshman in HS until I grow out my facial hair again?
Forget about trying to *look* older

Forget about trying to figure out if it is acceptable to wear sunglasses at night

You need to ask yourself honestly: 'Can I pull off wearing sunglasses at night? Am I completely comfortable doing it?'

If yes - then go for it

If not - drop it like it's hot

Girls will be able to smell your uncomfortableness from miles away
 

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You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

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Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

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I wear sunglasses at night all the time. I prefer doing it while I'm driving and I make sure to keep my head lights off so it's even more fun:rolleyes:

Seriously don't do that unless you're a coke dealer and it's your signal.
 

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It's cool if you wanna look like cyclops from X men

why would you where them at night? wouldn't it be hard to see?
 
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Cop: Hey kid. Why do you wear sunglasses at night?
Vince Latello: Because when you're cool, the sun shines on you 24 hours a day.

- My Science Project

Nice.
 

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its a peacock and girls are more likely to approach you,

plus fellow sunglass at night brethren will approach you to offer support,

atleast in my experience
 

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I wear these




Lol seriously tho I never have but I would if I felt like it. I mean if you wanna call out douchebaggish stuff, then the club is not the place to do it because most of what people wear to clubs they wouldnt rock on a daily basis, usually and if they did people would think they are douches.

At the club everybody is a rock(rap)star. Its all in good fun anyway. Go with it brah
 

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When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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