"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

Read more...

sunday date ideas? sexual girl all talk, but no actions produced.

shyguy

Master Don Juan
Joined
Jan 24, 2001
Messages
503
Reaction score
0
Well im kinda excited and kinda confused. I just started taking this new chick out I met at my job. We have only went out 2 times and we had a good time. Both action dates, pool and bowling and grab something to eat. It seems with my work schedule I most dates tend to fall on a sunday and therefore alot of things close down early. Anyone have good ideas for dates on a sunday? I did a search for this, but didnt really come up with a specific answer.

Also I have never dated a girl who is just very opening she admits she is into porn, loves sex and like to try different positions etc. I just met her and she is telling me this which is a good thing, but it seems she is maybe playing hard to get in a way. She seems so sexual and I start to makeout with her or what not and she doenst really seem to get all into it. Yes i guess once you drop off a date and start fooling around in a car that is not the best spot. we just kiss and then she goes on her way. I never have a spot to really take her alone due to living with rents and her as well. It just really confuses me how horny this chick comes off to be, but she really doesnt produce the actions once i initate things.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

Read more...

Julian

Banned
Joined
Jul 30, 2003
Messages
4,754
Reaction score
1,216
shes a c0ck tease bro. Either up your game and learn some moves to get her hornier or withdraw and make her chase u.
 

DEKKA

Master Don Juan
Joined
Aug 16, 2003
Messages
526
Reaction score
0
Location
SOCAL
on sundays just stay home and bone.

anyways.

what i like to tell guys is that you should judge the result and not the cause.

you are confused. that is the result. it doesn't matter what caused you to become confused about this girl because she's a woman and within the realm of women all reason vanishes. *poof*. don't think that your confusion is an accident either, it is not.

confusion = mind occupation

mind occupation = + seduction points for woman

dont think for a second that any of it is an accident, or, that it necessarily has a reasonable explanation. just realize that "you confused" is not a bad place for her to have you.... and it's not a place i'd want to be if i was in charge. in fact, if i was in charge, i wouldn't be confused now would i?

anyways, good luck, hope all goes well

-J
 

shyguy

Master Don Juan
Joined
Jan 24, 2001
Messages
503
Reaction score
0
sounds right thanks

maybe i should always think it out more. After reading your replies I see where all of you are coming from. Well i set something up for tonight, so ill see where it leads. If i dont like it, Ill just next her.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

Read more...

Top