"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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sunday date ideas? sexual girl all talk, but no actions produced.

shyguy

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Well im kinda excited and kinda confused. I just started taking this new chick out I met at my job. We have only went out 2 times and we had a good time. Both action dates, pool and bowling and grab something to eat. It seems with my work schedule I most dates tend to fall on a sunday and therefore alot of things close down early. Anyone have good ideas for dates on a sunday? I did a search for this, but didnt really come up with a specific answer.

Also I have never dated a girl who is just very opening she admits she is into porn, loves sex and like to try different positions etc. I just met her and she is telling me this which is a good thing, but it seems she is maybe playing hard to get in a way. She seems so sexual and I start to makeout with her or what not and she doenst really seem to get all into it. Yes i guess once you drop off a date and start fooling around in a car that is not the best spot. we just kiss and then she goes on her way. I never have a spot to really take her alone due to living with rents and her as well. It just really confuses me how horny this chick comes off to be, but she really doesnt produce the actions once i initate things.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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shes a c0ck tease bro. Either up your game and learn some moves to get her hornier or withdraw and make her chase u.
 

DEKKA

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on sundays just stay home and bone.

anyways.

what i like to tell guys is that you should judge the result and not the cause.

you are confused. that is the result. it doesn't matter what caused you to become confused about this girl because she's a woman and within the realm of women all reason vanishes. *poof*. don't think that your confusion is an accident either, it is not.

confusion = mind occupation

mind occupation = + seduction points for woman

dont think for a second that any of it is an accident, or, that it necessarily has a reasonable explanation. just realize that "you confused" is not a bad place for her to have you.... and it's not a place i'd want to be if i was in charge. in fact, if i was in charge, i wouldn't be confused now would i?

anyways, good luck, hope all goes well

-J
 

shyguy

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sounds right thanks

maybe i should always think it out more. After reading your replies I see where all of you are coming from. Well i set something up for tonight, so ill see where it leads. If i dont like it, Ill just next her.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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