"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Summer Time...

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DJ_Matthew

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Well it's almost summer time and I feel I haven't made much progress this year. Yes I've grew some balls, but I haven't really had any success.

The point, is I'm fed up of ****ing life passing me by and I'm not doing **** to help my situation. My parents don't let me go out much cause my grades aren't that good. I don't have a job and I have almost no money. I haven't had a girlfriend in 2 years.

It doesn't help that I go to a private school and there aren't that many hot girls. The parties and school dances are ****... Don't even get me started. I have 0 female friends. I'm sick and tired of beating my meat.

I live in small town and at night there's always girls hanging around, so I can go there, but my parents would never let me out that late (unless I sneak out :cool:, I will probably end up doing it).

Anyways, I want to make this summer the best one of my life. I want to get A DAMN JOB, TALK TO GIRLS, GET A GIRLFRIEND, GET SOME FEMALE FRIENDS AND GROW SOME BALLS.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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SexyBoi

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Idk what your getting at here...
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Just a guess but I'm thinkin he wants some advice here >.>

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It probably isnt a great idea to start out in a small town because everyone will know you and if you do one thing wrong to a girl...none of em will lay you and all will hate you....I made that mistake...My advice would be, go stay with a friend or cousin in a different place and have fun with the girls there...that way there isnt any chance of drama following you back to school after summer....
 
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sounds like your parents have backed you into a corner. You dont really have a choice if you cant reason with them some. Start sneaking out and having a good time. Hopefully its not hard to leave the house undetected.

As for a job I would say become a lifeguard. You have to take classes but its really a great job. A thousand times better than fast food or something. Get a job that is outdoors, landscaping is another good one.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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DJ_Matthew

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Was just looking for some opinions and perhaps inspire some people...

john paul said:
sounds like your parents have backed you into a corner. You dont really have a choice if you cant reason with them some. Start sneaking out and having a good time. Hopefully its not hard to leave the house undetected.

As for a job I would say become a lifeguard. You have to take classes but its really a great job. A thousand times better than fast food or something. Get a job that is outdoors, landscaping is another good one.
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It's really easy to leave the house undetected :D. Lol I sneak down almost every night.

I do have a beach near my home, but I'm looking for full time job. I used to cut grass before, but no one in my neighbor hood needs it anymore. There's not much I can do outside unfortunately.
 
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