"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Summer Time...

DJ_Matthew

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Well it's almost summer time and I feel I haven't made much progress this year. Yes I've grew some balls, but I haven't really had any success.

The point, is I'm fed up of ****ing life passing me by and I'm not doing **** to help my situation. My parents don't let me go out much cause my grades aren't that good. I don't have a job and I have almost no money. I haven't had a girlfriend in 2 years.

It doesn't help that I go to a private school and there aren't that many hot girls. The parties and school dances are ****... Don't even get me started. I have 0 female friends. I'm sick and tired of beating my meat.

I live in small town and at night there's always girls hanging around, so I can go there, but my parents would never let me out that late (unless I sneak out :cool:, I will probably end up doing it).

Anyways, I want to make this summer the best one of my life. I want to get A DAMN JOB, TALK TO GIRLS, GET A GIRLFRIEND, GET SOME FEMALE FRIENDS AND GROW SOME BALLS.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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SexyBoi

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Idk what your getting at here...
Just a guess but I'm thinkin he wants some advice here >.>

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It probably isnt a great idea to start out in a small town because everyone will know you and if you do one thing wrong to a girl...none of em will lay you and all will hate you....I made that mistake...My advice would be, go stay with a friend or cousin in a different place and have fun with the girls there...that way there isnt any chance of drama following you back to school after summer....
 

john paul

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sounds like your parents have backed you into a corner. You dont really have a choice if you cant reason with them some. Start sneaking out and having a good time. Hopefully its not hard to leave the house undetected.

As for a job I would say become a lifeguard. You have to take classes but its really a great job. A thousand times better than fast food or something. Get a job that is outdoors, landscaping is another good one.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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DJ_Matthew

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Was just looking for some opinions and perhaps inspire some people...

john paul said:
sounds like your parents have backed you into a corner. You dont really have a choice if you cant reason with them some. Start sneaking out and having a good time. Hopefully its not hard to leave the house undetected.

As for a job I would say become a lifeguard. You have to take classes but its really a great job. A thousand times better than fast food or something. Get a job that is outdoors, landscaping is another good one.
It's really easy to leave the house undetected :D. Lol I sneak down almost every night.

I do have a beach near my home, but I'm looking for full time job. I used to cut grass before, but no one in my neighbor hood needs it anymore. There's not much I can do outside unfortunately.
 
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