Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

Read more...

Summer Bootcamp Main Post

N

NorwegianDJ

Master Don Juan
Joined
Apr 8, 2010
Messages
2,553
Reaction score
83
What's a better time to get this woman stuff handled than over the summer holidays?

The original bootcamp can be downloaded here: http://www.jbspencer.com/djb/Downloads/djbc.pdf

Assignments:
You will have ONE week from when they are assigned to complete along with TWO weekends.

Assignments will be given on Thursdays, but week 1 is subject to be posted earlier.

You will have until the NEXT SUNDAY NIGHT to complete them.

For example if an assignment is posted on Thursday, you have until not next Thursday but the Sunday afterward to complete it and post your Field Report.

This bootcamp will be conducted similarly to this one: http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=191043

The leaders are as follows, in particular order of leading:
AlexLefty : Week 1
Jack Wealthy : Week 2
LearningSlowly : Week 3
NorwegianDJ : Week 4
Nino : Week 5
BPH : Week 6
Eastcoast : Week 7
TheVirtualMind : Week 8

This will be the main post. Each week will get a seperate post and will be linked to from here.

Bonus assignments or 1-step-up challenges may be assigned each week. I, myself will make sure to reward anyone that go above and beyond. There shall be reps for the winner of each week, the writer of the best FR, most girls pulled in this period, and for whoever gets a GF or two.

This post is subject to change.

Week 1 - Fvck it
 
Last edited:

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

Read more...

N

NorwegianDJ

Master Don Juan
Joined
Apr 8, 2010
Messages
2,553
Reaction score
83
Nino-Tk said:
Geez, I might be going for a Maxillofacial surgery on Thursday, sh*it takes 6 weeks to heal...got an underbite, but I'm going to the Orthodontic tomorrow, I shall confirm...I apologize for the inconvenience but my dad coerced me to follow through with it.
Click to expand...
Very chilled. What exactly are you doing? I can put you in charge later in the bootcamp if you'd like.
 
N

Nino-Tk

Master Don Juan
Joined
Sep 16, 2009
Messages
628
Reaction score
6
Age
33
Location
South Africa, Johannesburg
Well the long and short of it is, I'm getting my jaw shifted a couple of centimeters back, its been causing me migraines and all, and from my side view, one can see I've got a long jaw.

I'm kinda scared, it might change how my face looks...there is 5-10% chance my lower lip and chip will be permamnently numb! Gums too! But I will let you know, for now, perhaps it would be wise to get someone in my place.
 
N

NorwegianDJ

Master Don Juan
Joined
Apr 8, 2010
Messages
2,553
Reaction score
83
Nino-Tk said:
Well the long and short of it is, I'm getting my jaw shifted a couple of centimeters back, its been causing me migraines and all, and from my side view, one can see I've got a long jaw.

I'm kinda scared, it might change how my face looks...there is 5-10% chance my lower lip and chip will be permamnently numb! Gums too! But I will let you know, for now, perhaps it would be wise to get someone in my place.
Click to expand...
Ouch. Perhaps you'll end up better. We'll take it as it comes.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

Read more...

A

AlexLefty

Master Don Juan
Joined
Jan 12, 2010
Messages
755
Reaction score
9
Location
Cali
It seems that the leaders are the only ones participating. Hahaha
 
D

DJ BREN

Don Juan
Joined
Apr 2, 2012
Messages
20
Reaction score
0
I'm in France now, don't have Internet acces, can I start 1st July?
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

Read more...

A

AlexLefty

Master Don Juan
Joined
Jan 12, 2010
Messages
755
Reaction score
9
Location
Cali
Why is no one posting FRs?!?
 
M

Mindgamez

Master Don Juan
Joined
Sep 11, 2011
Messages
627
Reaction score
3
I posted FRs myself, even with videos
Most of people that joined the bootcamp quited after the 1st week. I believe that the 2nd week was a big leap for the average people. It's like jumping from normal conversation to going directly sexual. It's not impossible but it's clearly not very easy! I think that it should've been more progressive. If week 3 is going for the kiss, what's week 8? Making love within 5 minutes of conversation? Hahahaha

Anyway, I'll still try to catch up on week 2 and hopefully do week 3.
 
A

AlexLefty

Master Don Juan
Joined
Jan 12, 2010
Messages
755
Reaction score
9
Location
Cali
Mindgamez said:
I posted FRs myself, even with videos
Most of people that joined the bootcamp quited after the 1st week. I believe that the 2nd week was a big leap for the average people. It's like jumping from normal conversation to going directly sexual. It's not impossible but it's clearly not very easy! I think that it should've been more progressive. If week 3 is going for the kiss, what's week 8? Making love within 5 minutes of conversation? Hahahaha

Anyway, I'll still try to catch up on week 2 and hopefully do week 3.
Click to expand...
Where?
/if it's in your journal, post them in the weeks where they are supposed to be
AlexLefty said:
Why is no one posting FRs?!?
Click to expand...
@NDJ @TheVirtualMind @BPH @LS @JW
 
TheVirtualMind

TheVirtualMind

Master Don Juan
Joined
Mar 9, 2005
Messages
2,347
Reaction score
376
Location
#45
AlexLefty said:
Where?
/if it's in your journal, post them in the weeks where they are supposed to be

@TheVirtualMind
Click to expand...
Point being? I never said I was a participant, just a leader in it.
 
L

LearningSlowly

Master Don Juan
Joined
Aug 8, 2011
Messages
1,206
Reaction score
12
Location
Atlanta
Mindgamez said:
If week 3 is going for the kiss, what's week 8? Making love within 5 minutes of conversation? Hahahaha
Click to expand...
The way I see it, going for a kiss is literally the only important thing about a Day 2 meet up. And if you managed to get numbers over the first 2 weeks (Mindgamez, maybe you were the only one who has) then now is the time to start setting up Day 2's.

I don't have FR's up because I haven't done approaches, I've been in Israel, where they don't speak english. I'm going approaching today and Wednesday at least. I'm working on setting up dates for my own challenge this week (but got shot down by my main 2 options. Guess I gotta go meet new girls).
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

Read more...

A

AlexLefty

Master Don Juan
Joined
Jan 12, 2010
Messages
755
Reaction score
9
Location
Cali
TheVirtualMind said:
Point being? I never said I was a participant, just a leader in it.
Click to expand...
I feel as if you should participate if you're going to lead.
 
TheVirtualMind

TheVirtualMind

Master Don Juan
Joined
Mar 9, 2005
Messages
2,347
Reaction score
376
Location
#45
AlexLefty said:
I feel as if you should participate if you're going to lead.
Click to expand...
I, however, do not. Especially since I'm *cough* years older than everyone participating anyway.
 
A

AlexLefty

Master Don Juan
Joined
Jan 12, 2010
Messages
755
Reaction score
9
Location
Cali
TheVirtualMind said:
I, however, do not. Especially since I'm *cough* years older than everyone participating anyway.
Click to expand...
HOW old r u??
 
M

Mindgamez

Master Don Juan
Joined
Sep 11, 2011
Messages
627
Reaction score
3
What happened? Everybody quitted...
Seems pretty lame to me. Also, the leaders don't even participate so what's the point?
 
A

AlexLefty

Master Don Juan
Joined
Jan 12, 2010
Messages
755
Reaction score
9
Location
Cali
Mindgamez said:
What happened? Everybody quitted...
Seems pretty lame to me. Also, the leaders don't even participate so what's the point?
Click to expand...
exactly
i'm still in
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

Read more...

You must log in or register to reply here.
22 Rules for Massive Success With Women
Top