"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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What's a better time to get this woman stuff handled than over the summer holidays?

The original bootcamp can be downloaded here: http://www.jbspencer.com/djb/Downloads/djbc.pdf

Assignments:
You will have ONE week from when they are assigned to complete along with TWO weekends.

Assignments will be given on Thursdays, but week 1 is subject to be posted earlier.

You will have until the NEXT SUNDAY NIGHT to complete them.

For example if an assignment is posted on Thursday, you have until not next Thursday but the Sunday afterward to complete it and post your Field Report.

This bootcamp will be conducted similarly to this one: http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=191043

The leaders are as follows, in particular order of leading:
AlexLefty : Week 1
Jack Wealthy : Week 2
LearningSlowly : Week 3
NorwegianDJ : Week 4
Nino : Week 5
BPH : Week 6
Eastcoast : Week 7
TheVirtualMind : Week 8

This will be the main post. Each week will get a seperate post and will be linked to from here.

Bonus assignments or 1-step-up challenges may be assigned each week. I, myself will make sure to reward anyone that go above and beyond. There shall be reps for the winner of each week, the writer of the best FR, most girls pulled in this period, and for whoever gets a GF or two.

This post is subject to change.

Week 1 - Fvck it
 
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Nino-Tk said:
Geez, I might be going for a Maxillofacial surgery on Thursday, sh*it takes 6 weeks to heal...got an underbite, but I'm going to the Orthodontic tomorrow, I shall confirm...I apologize for the inconvenience but my dad coerced me to follow through with it.
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Very chilled. What exactly are you doing? I can put you in charge later in the bootcamp if you'd like.
 
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Well the long and short of it is, I'm getting my jaw shifted a couple of centimeters back, its been causing me migraines and all, and from my side view, one can see I've got a long jaw.

I'm kinda scared, it might change how my face looks...there is 5-10% chance my lower lip and chip will be permamnently numb! Gums too! But I will let you know, for now, perhaps it would be wise to get someone in my place.
 
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Nino-Tk said:
Well the long and short of it is, I'm getting my jaw shifted a couple of centimeters back, its been causing me migraines and all, and from my side view, one can see I've got a long jaw.

I'm kinda scared, it might change how my face looks...there is 5-10% chance my lower lip and chip will be permamnently numb! Gums too! But I will let you know, for now, perhaps it would be wise to get someone in my place.
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Ouch. Perhaps you'll end up better. We'll take it as it comes.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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It seems that the leaders are the only ones participating. Hahaha
 
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I'm in France now, don't have Internet acces, can I start 1st July?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Why is no one posting FRs?!?
 
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I posted FRs myself, even with videos
Most of people that joined the bootcamp quited after the 1st week. I believe that the 2nd week was a big leap for the average people. It's like jumping from normal conversation to going directly sexual. It's not impossible but it's clearly not very easy! I think that it should've been more progressive. If week 3 is going for the kiss, what's week 8? Making love within 5 minutes of conversation? Hahahaha

Anyway, I'll still try to catch up on week 2 and hopefully do week 3.
 
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I posted FRs myself, even with videos
Most of people that joined the bootcamp quited after the 1st week. I believe that the 2nd week was a big leap for the average people. It's like jumping from normal conversation to going directly sexual. It's not impossible but it's clearly not very easy! I think that it should've been more progressive. If week 3 is going for the kiss, what's week 8? Making love within 5 minutes of conversation? Hahahaha

Anyway, I'll still try to catch up on week 2 and hopefully do week 3.
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Where?
/if it's in your journal, post them in the weeks where they are supposed to be
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Why is no one posting FRs?!?
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@NDJ @TheVirtualMind @BPH @LS @JW
 
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Where?
/if it's in your journal, post them in the weeks where they are supposed to be

@TheVirtualMind
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Point being? I never said I was a participant, just a leader in it.
 
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If week 3 is going for the kiss, what's week 8? Making love within 5 minutes of conversation? Hahahaha
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The way I see it, going for a kiss is literally the only important thing about a Day 2 meet up. And if you managed to get numbers over the first 2 weeks (Mindgamez, maybe you were the only one who has) then now is the time to start setting up Day 2's.

I don't have FR's up because I haven't done approaches, I've been in Israel, where they don't speak english. I'm going approaching today and Wednesday at least. I'm working on setting up dates for my own challenge this week (but got shot down by my main 2 options. Guess I gotta go meet new girls).
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Point being? I never said I was a participant, just a leader in it.
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I feel as if you should participate if you're going to lead.
 
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I feel as if you should participate if you're going to lead.
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I, however, do not. Especially since I'm *cough* years older than everyone participating anyway.
 
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I, however, do not. Especially since I'm *cough* years older than everyone participating anyway.
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HOW old r u??
 
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What happened? Everybody quitted...
Seems pretty lame to me. Also, the leaders don't even participate so what's the point?
 
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What happened? Everybody quitted...
Seems pretty lame to me. Also, the leaders don't even participate so what's the point?
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exactly
i'm still in
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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