Aight hell yes! I just got out of school. Now to my question, the first female I'm trying to bag lives somewhat close to me bike distance (Im at the age of no cars) anyways, First of all she liek my freind a lil more than me, and most of my communication is done on Instant Messenger, though she came to talk 2 me for my birthday, and I have seen her around a few times. How do I shift the Attraction over to my side? How do I get her to come over so I can Kino, body language basically physical stuff? And ways to attract her online?
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Summer 06
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“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
WC2
Master Don Juan
Chances of attracting her online are slim to none. If you've got some wits about you, you might be able to make her laugh here and there but keep online talk short. Being in a new age, talking online is natural, but if you must do it after you know shes attracted to you.
BBX
Master Don Juan
Does she have any clue that you like her?
supajsilver2
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Online isn't so useful. Try to avoid it. Maybe if you can't really come in contact with her any other way than the computer, you could find a way to set up a casual hangout with her. By 'casual hangout,' I mean that you don't "ask her out" because that is very retarded. I mean you say something to the effect of "I'm going to [place] on [day], want to come with?" something like a pool party or bonfire or graduation party, because those are common this time of year. If you're still meeting eachother, don't know if she likes you or whatever, than it's best not to jump the gun and ask her on an individual date. Rather, group hangouts are best until you get to know her more and are confident that she is interested. Hope I could help. Read the DJ bible for more than you could ever need help with.
_J_
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
B-Lemond
Master Don Juan
Drez8023 said:Aight hell yes! I just got out of school. Now to my question, the first female I'm trying to bag lives somewhat close to me bike distance (Im at the age of no cars) anyways, First of all she liek my freind a lil more than me, and most of my communication is done on Instant Messenger, though she came to talk 2 me for my birthday, and I have seen her around a few times. How do I shift the Attraction over to my side? How do I get her to come over so I can Kino, body language basically physical stuff? And ways to attract her online?
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