"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Aight hell yes! I just got out of school. Now to my question, the first female I'm trying to bag lives somewhat close to me bike distance (Im at the age of no cars) anyways, First of all she liek my freind a lil more than me, and most of my communication is done on Instant Messenger, though she came to talk 2 me for my birthday, and I have seen her around a few times. How do I shift the Attraction over to my side? How do I get her to come over so I can Kino, body language basically physical stuff? And ways to attract her online?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Chances of attracting her online are slim to none. If you've got some wits about you, you might be able to make her laugh here and there but keep online talk short. Being in a new age, talking online is natural, but if you must do it after you know shes attracted to you.
 

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Online isn't so useful. Try to avoid it. Maybe if you can't really come in contact with her any other way than the computer, you could find a way to set up a casual hangout with her. By 'casual hangout,' I mean that you don't "ask her out" because that is very retarded. I mean you say something to the effect of "I'm going to [place] on [day], want to come with?" something like a pool party or bonfire or graduation party, because those are common this time of year. If you're still meeting eachother, don't know if she likes you or whatever, than it's best not to jump the gun and ask her on an individual date. Rather, group hangouts are best until you get to know her more and are confident that she is interested. Hope I could help. Read the DJ bible for more than you could ever need help with.

_J_
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Drez8023 said:
Aight hell yes! I just got out of school. Now to my question, the first female I'm trying to bag lives somewhat close to me bike distance (Im at the age of no cars) anyways, First of all she liek my freind a lil more than me, and most of my communication is done on Instant Messenger, though she came to talk 2 me for my birthday, and I have seen her around a few times. How do I shift the Attraction over to my side? How do I get her to come over so I can Kino, body language basically physical stuff? And ways to attract her online?

How do I get THIS SPECIFIC girl: Useless Thread #7
 
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