Aight hell yes! I just got out of school. Now to my question, the first female I'm trying to bag lives somewhat close to me bike distance (Im at the age of no cars) anyways, First of all she liek my freind a lil more than me, and most of my communication is done on Instant Messenger, though she came to talk 2 me for my birthday, and I have seen her around a few times. How do I shift the Attraction over to my side? How do I get her to come over so I can Kino, body language basically physical stuff? And ways to attract her online?
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Summer 06
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"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
WC2
Master Don Juan
Chances of attracting her online are slim to none. If you've got some wits about you, you might be able to make her laugh here and there but keep online talk short. Being in a new age, talking online is natural, but if you must do it after you know shes attracted to you.
BBX
Master Don Juan
Does she have any clue that you like her?
supajsilver2
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Online isn't so useful. Try to avoid it. Maybe if you can't really come in contact with her any other way than the computer, you could find a way to set up a casual hangout with her. By 'casual hangout,' I mean that you don't "ask her out" because that is very retarded. I mean you say something to the effect of "I'm going to [place] on [day], want to come with?" something like a pool party or bonfire or graduation party, because those are common this time of year. If you're still meeting eachother, don't know if she likes you or whatever, than it's best not to jump the gun and ask her on an individual date. Rather, group hangouts are best until you get to know her more and are confident that she is interested. Hope I could help. Read the DJ bible for more than you could ever need help with.
_J_
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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
B-Lemond
Master Don Juan
Drez8023 said:Aight hell yes! I just got out of school. Now to my question, the first female I'm trying to bag lives somewhat close to me bike distance (Im at the age of no cars) anyways, First of all she liek my freind a lil more than me, and most of my communication is done on Instant Messenger, though she came to talk 2 me for my birthday, and I have seen her around a few times. How do I shift the Attraction over to my side? How do I get her to come over so I can Kino, body language basically physical stuff? And ways to attract her online?
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