"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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suggestions where to pick up? cheap places preferrably

big weezy

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can you list some places i can pick up girls easily and affordibly?

so far my list is:

bars
clubs
coffee shops
street approaches
at college (assuming you're at college)
library
at the mall

im fed up of picking up at bars/clubs it's too loud that i've put most of my energy towards approaches in coffee shops but sometimes HBs are few and far between.

street approaches require unrelenting confidence otherwise you get straight rejections cos you come across as desperate. i only do this when i already have options cos then i dont care.

where else can you pick up that i haven't thought of?
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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xdreamz

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every kind of pickup needs "confidence".. so dont rule out the streets yet. Try going out with a friend and it will be a lot easier.... have a kind of random routine you go through (help with directions, help with finding something) and set it up so you guys can hang out later.

here are other ideas....

- dormitories
- swimming pools
- housing areas
- the beach
- schools that you don't go to
- museums
- bookstores
- people that work in stores **challenge**
- the internet **challenge**
 

J. Darko

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Instead of harrassing people in public, you could try meeting new people through joining sports teams and attending parties organised by your social contacts.
 

terran2k

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I joined the sports social club for a little while, just to do something different, easy, easy easy way to meet new women and friends.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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joe henny

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Are you kidding? Anywhere homie cuz people are everywhere, and for the most part there are usually more women around than men since the world has more women.

Clubs, are a good place for the hot freaks.
 

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soup kitchens
homeless shelters
thrift stores
 

big weezy

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are there places during the day i can try that i already haven't thought of?

coffee shops currently are my main focus as I'm not confident enough yet to approach on the street with confidence without being embarassed if it doesn't go well.

some of you have mentioned social clubs etc or sports clubs, none of these things sound cheap.. i've noticed while being in coffee shops i'll see loads of hot women on their way into the high street for either shopping/lunch with the girls etc

there must be some better places for day time pick up cos currently im only getting maybe 1-2 potential opportunities to pick up in 1 coffee place at a time if i stay there all day. they're usually either empty or the girl is say too far away for me to approach. it's quite tough actually.
 
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