“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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suggestions where to pick up? cheap places preferrably

big weezy

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can you list some places i can pick up girls easily and affordibly?

so far my list is:

bars
clubs
coffee shops
street approaches
at college (assuming you're at college)
library
at the mall

im fed up of picking up at bars/clubs it's too loud that i've put most of my energy towards approaches in coffee shops but sometimes HBs are few and far between.

street approaches require unrelenting confidence otherwise you get straight rejections cos you come across as desperate. i only do this when i already have options cos then i dont care.

where else can you pick up that i haven't thought of?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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xdreamz

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every kind of pickup needs "confidence".. so dont rule out the streets yet. Try going out with a friend and it will be a lot easier.... have a kind of random routine you go through (help with directions, help with finding something) and set it up so you guys can hang out later.

here are other ideas....

- dormitories
- swimming pools
- housing areas
- the beach
- schools that you don't go to
- museums
- bookstores
- people that work in stores **challenge**
- the internet **challenge**
 

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Instead of harrassing people in public, you could try meeting new people through joining sports teams and attending parties organised by your social contacts.
 

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I joined the sports social club for a little while, just to do something different, easy, easy easy way to meet new women and friends.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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joe henny

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Are you kidding? Anywhere homie cuz people are everywhere, and for the most part there are usually more women around than men since the world has more women.

Clubs, are a good place for the hot freaks.
 

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soup kitchens
homeless shelters
thrift stores
 

big weezy

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are there places during the day i can try that i already haven't thought of?

coffee shops currently are my main focus as I'm not confident enough yet to approach on the street with confidence without being embarassed if it doesn't go well.

some of you have mentioned social clubs etc or sports clubs, none of these things sound cheap.. i've noticed while being in coffee shops i'll see loads of hot women on their way into the high street for either shopping/lunch with the girls etc

there must be some better places for day time pick up cos currently im only getting maybe 1-2 potential opportunities to pick up in 1 coffee place at a time if i stay there all day. they're usually either empty or the girl is say too far away for me to approach. it's quite tough actually.
 
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