"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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suggestions where to pick up? cheap places preferrably

big weezy

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can you list some places i can pick up girls easily and affordibly?

so far my list is:

bars
clubs
coffee shops
street approaches
at college (assuming you're at college)
library
at the mall

im fed up of picking up at bars/clubs it's too loud that i've put most of my energy towards approaches in coffee shops but sometimes HBs are few and far between.

street approaches require unrelenting confidence otherwise you get straight rejections cos you come across as desperate. i only do this when i already have options cos then i dont care.

where else can you pick up that i haven't thought of?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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xdreamz

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every kind of pickup needs "confidence".. so dont rule out the streets yet. Try going out with a friend and it will be a lot easier.... have a kind of random routine you go through (help with directions, help with finding something) and set it up so you guys can hang out later.

here are other ideas....

- dormitories
- swimming pools
- housing areas
- the beach
- schools that you don't go to
- museums
- bookstores
- people that work in stores **challenge**
- the internet **challenge**
 

J. Darko

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Instead of harrassing people in public, you could try meeting new people through joining sports teams and attending parties organised by your social contacts.
 

terran2k

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I joined the sports social club for a little while, just to do something different, easy, easy easy way to meet new women and friends.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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joe henny

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Are you kidding? Anywhere homie cuz people are everywhere, and for the most part there are usually more women around than men since the world has more women.

Clubs, are a good place for the hot freaks.
 

Berlex

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soup kitchens
homeless shelters
thrift stores
 

big weezy

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are there places during the day i can try that i already haven't thought of?

coffee shops currently are my main focus as I'm not confident enough yet to approach on the street with confidence without being embarassed if it doesn't go well.

some of you have mentioned social clubs etc or sports clubs, none of these things sound cheap.. i've noticed while being in coffee shops i'll see loads of hot women on their way into the high street for either shopping/lunch with the girls etc

there must be some better places for day time pick up cos currently im only getting maybe 1-2 potential opportunities to pick up in 1 coffee place at a time if i stay there all day. they're usually either empty or the girl is say too far away for me to approach. it's quite tough actually.
 
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