"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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comic_relief

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Uh what happened to it? I can't locate it anymore. At least at the time of this post. Did Allen decide that the same things were being discussed over and over again so he decided to get rid of it? if so, good choice
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Vincent

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It's gone. All S&F threads can now be placed in AE.
 

Vincent

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Allen removed it. Feel free to make suggestions in AE.
 

WesCottII

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Where am I supposed to flame now?
 

TheRelic

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Haha.... absolutely ridiculous. Very suave indeed.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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penkitten

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most ppl didnt post suggestions
they posted can we get new forums that had already been suggested before
 

Climax

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Under the discription of the AE forum, can that be added?

Eg: Any suggestions can be posted here too" .. Or something similar to that:rolleyes: ;)


Laterz...
 
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It was useless. Mods and certain members would just criticize people and take their suggestions as personal insults.
 
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