"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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comic_relief

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Uh what happened to it? I can't locate it anymore. At least at the time of this post. Did Allen decide that the same things were being discussed over and over again so he decided to get rid of it? if so, good choice
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Vincent

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It's gone. All S&F threads can now be placed in AE.
 

Vincent

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Allen removed it. Feel free to make suggestions in AE.
 

WesCottII

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Where am I supposed to flame now?
 

TheRelic

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Haha.... absolutely ridiculous. Very suave indeed.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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penkitten

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most ppl didnt post suggestions
they posted can we get new forums that had already been suggested before
 

Climax

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Under the discription of the AE forum, can that be added?

Eg: Any suggestions can be posted here too" .. Or something similar to that:rolleyes: ;)


Laterz...
 
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It was useless. Mods and certain members would just criticize people and take their suggestions as personal insults.
 
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