Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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comic_relief

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Uh what happened to it? I can't locate it anymore. At least at the time of this post. Did Allen decide that the same things were being discussed over and over again so he decided to get rid of it? if so, good choice
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Vincent

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It's gone. All S&F threads can now be placed in AE.
 

Vincent

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Allen removed it. Feel free to make suggestions in AE.
 

WesCottII

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Where am I supposed to flame now?
 

TheRelic

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Haha.... absolutely ridiculous. Very suave indeed.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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most ppl didnt post suggestions
they posted can we get new forums that had already been suggested before
 

Climax

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Under the discription of the AE forum, can that be added?

Eg: Any suggestions can be posted here too" .. Or something similar to that:rolleyes: ;)


Laterz...
 
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It was useless. Mods and certain members would just criticize people and take their suggestions as personal insults.
 
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