"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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drift king

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Met this HB 7 in gym, got talking flirting a bit.

Next time seen her she was with some dude there. Didn't let that fluster me, went over to talk when she was alone and got to the suggestion of training together sometime, went for the number close, she agreed, then gives me the bullsh*t line of 'i dont know my number..' i responded with 'huh? how do you not know your number??' then she gave me some crap about giving it to me next time.

i ended up leaving it with the line 'i guess you'll miss out then..' and i walk away.

been week and a bit and seen her today for first time, at first i just blanked and ignored her if i ever crossed the vicinity of where she was, not looking in her direction.

When she was closer to me i just said hey to her from a distance thats it and continued what i was doing.

She then comes over to me to chat and i think i made the mistake of being too flirty rather than acting uninterested and distant.

Was she just testing me to see if i was still interested?
cos the way i was acting prior to that was of someone who wasn't.

i kinda felt like maybe she was doing this more for herself out of guilt rather than anything else.

Long story short after about 2mins talk she was about to walk away so i just said see ya.

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I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

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sexxyback

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game over. doesn't really matter what you do at this point.
 

ryannath

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The other guy was her bf maybe. And she wasn't interested in you. We can't win them all. It was nothing you did wrong probably.
 

Pimp-sicle

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drift king said:
fair play. where do you think the mistake was?

Well based off that vague description of the situation, I would say you didn't make a mistake, she just wasn't interested.

But if I had to take a better guess, I'd say you didn't create any sort of attraction with her before you went in for the # close. If you work on improving one aspect of your game, work on improving rapport with a girl. It will get you faaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaarrr!!




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Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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drift king

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thanks. i guess her coming up to me really meant nothing at all?
 
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